Η Jacqueline Adan, Φωτογραφία: jacquelineadan44/instagram
Η Jacqueline Adan, Φωτογραφία: jacquelineadan44/instagram
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«Νόμιζα ότι ο πόνος δεν θα φύγει ποτέ» -Γυναίκα αποκαλύπτει πόσο οδυνηρή είναι η αφαίρεση περιττού δέρματος


Η Jacqueline Adan ξεκίνησε τις προσπάθειες για να χάσει κιλά πριν από 5 χρόνια όταν «κόλλησε» στο ακυρωτικό μηχάνημα εισιτηρίου στη Ντίσνευλαντ, γιατί δεν χωρούσε να περάσει. 

Τότε ζύγιζε 230 κιλά και έπειτα από μεγάλη προσπάθεια και στροφή 180 μοιρών στη διατροφή και στον τρόπο ζωής της κατάφερε να χάσει 159 κιλα. 

Το σώμα της μεταμορφώθηκε τελείως και είχε γίνει πλέον μια άλλη γυναίκα. 

Ωστόσο, μετά από μια τέτοια μεγάλη απώλεια κιλών το δέρμα της είχε χαλαρώσει πολύ και το χειρουργείο ήταν μια επιλογή. 

Η Jacqueline Adan πήρε την απόφαση να υποβληθεί σε πλαστική χειρουργική και στα δύο της πόδια για να μαζέψει το δέρμα της, αλλά δεν περίμενε ποτέ ότι ο πόνος θα ήταν τόσο μεγάλος. 

Στην αρχή σημειώνει ότι ενθουσιάστηκε που τα πόδια της επιτέλους θα έδειχαν πιο όμορφα και υπέθετε ότι το μεταβατικό στάδιο μετά την επέμβαση δεν θα ήταν τόσο δύσκολο.

Η ανάρρωση είναι μια αργή διαδικασία και η γυναίκα αυτή τονίζει μέσω του Instagram ότι μια τέτοια επέμβαση δεν είναι «παιχνιδάκι».

Ο πόνος ήταν μεγάλος και οι πονοκέφαλοι δεν έφευγαν με τίποτα. 

«Μετά τη χειρουργική επέμβαση στα πόδια μου αισθάνθηκα ότι ο πόνος δεν θα έφευγε ποτέ! Ο πόνος όταν περπατούσα ήταν τόσο μεγάλος που δεν μπορούσα να διανοηθώ ότι θα μπορούσα ποτέ να γυμναστώ ξανά. Αλλά μέρα με τη μέρα, σιγά σιγά, έγινα πιο δυνατή και γενναία και απλά συνέχιζα να αγωνίζομαι. Σήμερα γυμνάζομαι και δεν κοιτάω ποτέ πίσω στο παρελθόν και τα δύσκολα που πέρασα» σημειώνει. 

Δείτε εδώ: 

 

There has always been one person who never let my weight, insecurities, excess skin, back rolls, thick legs or peoples comments, stares or judgements stand in the way from loving me just as I am. He redefined to me what beauty meant. He made me realize that I had someone who would love me no matter what and that made me want to do better, be better and be the best person I could be. I wanted to love myself unconditionally just as he loved me. I wanted to be my best self- the version he always made me feel but could not feel for myself. Then, one day, it finally happened. I finally felt it. I finally felt beautiful. Not because I lost weight, but because I finally felt happy inside myself. Never in a million years would I ever have expected him to be able to carry me! To be honest, when he just kinda lifted me up onto his back...I was terrified! I thought there is no way he could pick me up. After he did, he just smiled and said “I told ya.” This moment may look like pure joy, and it is. Remember, Love has no shape,size,color, it does not care if you have a six pack or what size clothes you wear or if your body is covered in scars. Love is when you can love someone, love yourself, with no conditions. Without society telling you it’s wrong or that something, or someone is not beautiful. Kevin never saw me as anything else but the happy, laughing, positive girl that I am today. From day one he was able to see me for me and only me. For that, I am forever grateful. Not only is that the kind of love I cherish everyday, but that unconditional love is what helped give me the courage and made me realize that no matter where I was or where I am on my journey, that I have the courage and power inside of me to love myself and feel beautiful just the way I am!

Η δημοσίευση κοινοποιήθηκε από το χρήστη Jacqueline's Journey (@jacquelineadan44) στις 6 Μάρ, 2018 στις 10:37 πμ PST


 

It’s not about the size of the girl in the fight. It’s about the size of the fight in the girl. This girl is not giving up anytime soon! New YouTube video up now!! Link in my bio! My first workout after skin removal surgery #5 on my legs! After surgery on my legs it felt like the pain would never get any better! The pain of just walking was bad enough, and I could not possibly think about working out. But day by day, moment by moment I became stronger, braver, and just kept fighting. Now here I am back in the gym and I have not looked back since! In my video I share with you my very first workout after my leg surgery. I also share my feelings and thoughts after working out again- and something very emotional that happened!!! To say it was hard is an understatement and I am so excited to share this video with you. It is not a typical video- I struggle a lot and the workout might not seem like much but that is why I wanted to share it. We are all at different stages in our journey. Something that is easy for someone may be hard for someone else and that is ok. Just do your best and never stop fighting. To watch my newest video head over to YouTube.com/jacquelinesjourney or the direct link is in my bio. I would love for you to comment and let me know what you think YouTube.com/jacquelinesjourney @amillionwayspromo thank you for everything!! . . . #weightlossjourney #weightlossmotivation #motivationmonday #workoutmotivation #gymmotivation #fitnessjourney #fitnessmotivation #youtube #weightlosstransformation

Η δημοσίευση κοινοποιήθηκε από το χρήστη Jacqueline's Journey (@jacquelineadan44) στις 7 Μάι, 2018 στις 5:38 μμ PDT



 

#tbt Disclaimer- this is not me now! I wanted to share this photo again to talk a little bit about my #selflovejourney. For me, it actually took me getting made fun of at the pool in Mexico to fully realize just how important #selflove is. This vacation was the first time I would be wearing a bathing suit in...a very long time. I had lost over 350 pounds, had 2 #skinremoval surgeries and I told myself that I would be brave enough to wear a bathing suit without a cover up. As soon as I took my cover up off and started walking towards the pool, a couple started pointing and laughing at me and putting me and my body down... I froze. In that moment I had 2 choices. 1-I could go running to put my cover up back on and go cry in the bathroom 2-get into the pool. I chose option 2. At that moment I never felt more alive. I was proud of my #hardwork and I was not going to let the opinions of others stop me from living my life. They did not know what I had been through and they do not know what I am going through. They have no right to judge me or laugh at me. So I smiled as I walked past them and got in the pool. I did not allow them to have the power. I had the power. I know how hard I worked to get to this exact moment and no one was ever going to have that power over me again. Yes it hurts, but that does not define me. So...you might be thinking that is great but how does that help me. Well, once I realized that I was the one in control- to #loseweight, make my own choices and decisions, what I feel and say about myself and how I treat others, it was so much easier for me to hold onto that power and just focus on me. No one knows what you are going through. They may have their opinions and judgements and of course they will have their comments, but no matter what, people are always going to have their opinions. You can never please everyone. So stop trying! If you are #happy, and you are making the best choices for you, that is all that matters. If not, you have the power to change it. #nevergiveup on loving yourself. No matter how hard it may seem. Own who you are, and never let anyone take that power away from you!!! #bodypositive #bodyconfidence

Η δημοσίευση κοινοποιήθηκε από το χρήστη Jacqueline's Journey (@jacquelineadan44) στις 10 Μάι, 2018 στις 6:00 μμ PDT



Σημειώνεται ότι η ψυχολογική προσαρμογή του ατόμου στην αλλαγή της εξωτερικής εμφάνισής του μετά από κάποιο χειρουργείο πλαστικής χειρουργικής απαιτεί κάποια χρονική περίοδο, ιδιαίτερα εάν το χειρουργείο έχει προκαλέσει μια σημαντική αλλαγή της εμφάνισης του σώματος/προσώπου.

Ετσι και στην περίπτωση της Jacqueline Adan, η μετεγχειρητική περίοδος ήταν δύσκολη και χρειαζόταν πολύ υπομονή και ψυχολογική υποστήριξη.

Οπως λέει και η ίδια, μια πλαστική επέμβαση δεν είναι τόσο απλή όσο φαίνεται. «Ο κόσμος δεν αντιλαμβάνεται πόσο δύσκολο είναι. Νομίζουν ότι είναι μια διαδικασία που απλώς περνάει, αλλά δεν είναι έτσι». 

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